Whoisthisfor/people-suffering-addiction
For People Struggling with Addiction What if there's more to recovery than just stopping?
Most people who come to me want one simple thing: to stop; they want the pain, the compulsion, the cycle to end.
And I smile, not because I don’t understand the desperation, but because I know what’s possible.
Stopping is just the beginning; what you’re searching for isn’t just an end to addiction – it’s an end to feeling trapped. It’s a way to finally be at home in yourself, to feel a sense of ease in life that doesn’t come from substances, relationships, or constant escape.
Recovery isn’t about control – It’s about understanding.
Traditional recovery focuses on managing addiction – using willpower, external structures, or lifelong effort to keep yourself “in check” – This approach is different.
This is about insight.
It’s about understanding yourself and your response to trauma so deeply that addiction loses its grip – without you having to fight it.
You don’t need more strategies to “stay clean” – You need to see why you don’t need the thing you’re clinging to. When that happens, change is effortless.
Who is this for?
Not everyone is ready for this work. This process isn’t for people who want a quick fix, another system to follow, or someone to tell them what to do. It’s for people who feel a pull towards something deeper – curious, questioning, and willing to look inside themselves even when it’s uncomfortable.
You might not even know exactly what you’re looking for; you might just be tired of your life, whether that is the 12 Steps or active addiction – you know that something in what you’ve read here makes sense to you.
If that’s you, you’re in the right place.
A Unique Opportunity –
Free for a Limited Time*
For a limited time, I’m offering a free* place in this process – an immersive, six-month journey through the workbook with:
- Two 90-minute meetings per week – exploring deep insights, not just surface-level recovery
- A private support group – a space for shared reflection and learning
- A process that meets you where you are – not a rigid system, but a way to see yourself differently
This isn’t a passive programme, it’s not just about showing up. It’s about engaging, reflecting, and doing the work.
Because of that, selection isn’t based on need or desperation. It’s based on curiosity, willingness, and engagement.
How are people chosen?
I don’t pick people because they’re struggling the most – I like people ready to investigate themselves.
The best way to get noticed is to engage, comment on posts, ask questions, or send a private message if you prefer. Show me that something in this resonates with you.
If that’s you, reach out or start engaging – if you’re the right fit, I’ll notice.
A Different Kind of Recovery:
My Realisation
For years, I followed traditional recovery paths; I tried to control my behaviour, stay busy, manage cravings, and fix myself. But even with long-term abstinence, I was still searching.
I poured my energy into self-improvement, hoping that if I did enough, I’d finally feel okay.
But that’s the thing – we’re taught to escape in recovery just like we escaped in addiction. Whether it’s through substances, relationships, achievement, or even spirituality, the cycle is the same: running from ourselves.
The shift happened when I stopped running.
When I finally looked inside – not with judgment, but with real curiosity – I saw nothing was missing. Nothing was broken. I wasn’t someone who needed to be “in recovery” forever – I was someone who had been misunderstanding where my experience of life came from.
That’s the understanding that changed everything.
That’s the understanding I’m offering you.
What's Possible?
This process isn’t about being “stronger” or “more disciplined.”
It’s about seeing clearly.
When you understand yourself, your behaviours naturally change. When you see where your suffering comes from, it starts to dissolve – not because you forced it to, but because it was an innocent protection mechanism to help you escape trauma response.
During this process what you'll experience:
- A mind that is quieter - not through force, but through understanding
- Less fear and resistance - because you’re no longer fighting yourself
- A sense of peace and clarity - even in difficult moments
- A natural shift in addictive behaviours - without needing constant willpower
- A recovery that doesn’t feel like effort - but freedom
This is not about:
- Forcing yourself to stay clean
- Following steps, rules, or techniques
- Constantly managing cravings and triggers
- “Working” on yourself forever
If you’re tired of trying to fix yourself, and something in this speaks to you, let’s start the conversation.
Next Steps: How to Get Involved
Option 1: Engage & Connect
Comment on posts on Facebook, ask questions, or send a private message if something resonates.
I notice engagement and curiosity, If you’re the right fit, I’ll reach out.
Option 2: Contact Me Directly
If you feel a strong pull towards this, you can use the contact form below.
Let me know what’s resonating with you and why you feel drawn to this work.
Contact Us
This journey isn’t for everyone. But if it’s for you, you already know. I’ll see you inside.
Final Thought
“You can’t see what’s possible until you wake up to it. Until then, your only dream is to stop suffering. And that’s okay. But know this: life is waiting for you beyond that dream. All you have to do is look.”